People often think of intimacy as the soft, slow, and sensual, and for some this is true, however; this is only one facet of intimacy. Intimacy is truly about how we show up in a relationship—emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, and even experientially. As a sexual wellness and intimacy coach, what I find is that most people want a deeper level of intimacy in combination with autonomy. I think this is a healthy desire and way of being in a relationship, and for most, it is a struggle to balance the two.
After providing intimacy coaching in person for many years, I’m finally ready to expand my offerings to a broader audience sharing my services ONLINE with the Guideness platform.
All bodies are welcome! My work primarily centers on gay men, gay couples, straight couples, and straight women. Choose either one or two of the options below:
Modules - start with part 1 of a 3-part series, released over time
- Beginner friendly
- Learn at your own pace from the comfort of your home.
- Access these teachings and exercises forever with the Guideness platform.
- Connect with me and other users during the program.
- Experience a condensed version of my in-person workshops ONLINE.
Community - on-going subscription
- Join a growing community!
- Receive weekly invitations for group discussion.
- Access monthly conversations with myself and guests.
- Beginner friendly.
- Previous clients encouraged.
- All bodies are welcome.
To get the most out of these offerings I recommend purchasing both, however they can be just as gratifying and useful on their own.
See below for more details around what's included and what might be the right choice for you.
Learn more about the Modules:
MEDITATION & EMBODIMENT EXERCISES
Embodiment is a personal affirmation unique to everyone, and the exercises, meditations, and practice assignments within these three modules have been designed to awaken and bring awareness to your mind, body, spirit, and most of all the intersection of the three. How you take these practices and exercises into and through your body and out into the world will be unique to you and your gifts.
Each module will consist of a series of videos for you to watch, meditations to listen to, along with a physical practice. Experience and interact at a pace that suits you. Meet others within the experience and share where you're comfortable.

REAL WORLD PRACTICE ASSIGNMENTS
My deepest intention is to offer exercises and assignments that are applicable to you, not just in your home or this forum, but out in the real world, with real people. In this case, I offer practice for practice sake. My hope is that you, not master embodiment or the art of the erotic but rather, through these practices, continue to discover its bounty over and over again.
Every teaching will have specific assignments. Invite the work into your real life. Journal privately or openly within the program.
Learn more about the Community:

DISCUSSIONS
Like minded individuals are so important when building and sustaining community. To have the opportunity to express and be heard, as well as listen and offer feedback by and to those who are engaging in similar study and paths of growth, can be reflective, triggering, and expansive. For this reason, I have created a unique community that I hope serves you and the collective well.
Expect weekly thought starters as invitations for connection and discussion. You'll have the ability to journal and share privately or openly.
MONTHLY LIVE Q&A's
Each month I will be joined by a guest speaker/s to address and answer real world questions around embodiment, eroticism, sexuality, and intimacy. These will also be recorded and available following the live stream.
You'll have the ability to submit questions ahead of time and participate should that feel natural to you.

LIBRARY
Through the community you'll also have access to my blog, a growing collection of writings and beautiful images, as well as additional inspirational video content.
Let this be a safe space for exploration and expression.

TOUCH LA: Workshop
I am pleased to offer a continuation and expansion of my work in this three-day (Sept. 29 - Oct. 1), non-residential experience, designed to give men (gay, queer, bi-sexual, and trans men) the opportunity to learn how to engage in conversation through the nuance of conscious touch, all while fostering our growing collective community.
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Every week, you will receive a piece of my writing inviting you to think and feel into a specific subject matter, as well as news about upcoming offerings, events, workshops, and retreats.
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